VIDEO: Stunner’s stunning confession. . . He cheated on wife who buys expensive cars, clothes and rapper still contacts married ex-girlfriend Pokello



Bongani Ndlovu, Showbiz Correspondent
LOCAL rapper Stunner, real name Desmond Chideme, yesterday broke his silence, confessing to cheating on his wife Olinda whom he confirmed to be his “blesser” who buys him expensive cars and clothes.

In an exclusive interview with radio personality Ruvheneko Parirenyatwa on Facebook Live, the Dhaf korera hit maker, who broke down several times, also admitted to texting his ex-flame Pokello Nare.

A teary Stunner further claimed that Zimbabweans hate him but want to be involved in his personal life.

“On the real, people should just get out of my life . . . that’s what I want. I just want to do music, that’s all I’ve been doing. I don’t know why people hate me, I don’t eat at anyone’s house and I’ve never asked for anything. But Zimbabweans hate me and I know that for a fact,” he said.

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It was the first time Stunner opened up on his relationship with his wife after last week’s drama which has earned them the moniker, “Keeping up with the Chidemes”.

Olinda took to Facebook Live to pour her heart out on her troubles with her husband’s alleged wondering eye.

She said the artiste cheats on her with teenagers and claimed that everything Stunner owns, including cars and clothes, were a result of her hard work.

Stunner, using the same platform, yesterday said he agreed to do the interview to set the record straight.

He confirmed cheating on Olinda but refused to shed light on the mysterious damsel he cheated with, saying he owes no one but his wife an explanation.

“I’m not here to say I’m correct. I’m here to say that yes what she said was true. I had a slight lack of common sense and I made a mistake. Yes I cheated and I’m not here to justify it, that it’s because I’m a man,” said Stunner.

“The two spoke to each other and they exchanged words and I’m happy that happened. But I’m here to say I cheated and I’m wrong.

“I don’t owe any explanation as to why I did it to the public, the only person I owe that to is my wife. By telling people out there it’ll look like I’m trying to find an excuse or a way out, but I’m not looking for that.”

Stunner rubbished his wife’s claims that everything he owned was due to her hard work saying he had a life before he met her.

“I’ve known my wife for close to a year. So people can’t think she has been buying all my clothes and some of the cars for less than a year. It’s just my wife’s reaction as she was angry and it’s fine,” he said.

Asked why he was still texting his ex-girlfriend Pokello whom he featured with in a steamy sex tape, Stunner said they have a normal relationship.

“I still speak to Pokello, she’s married, I’m married and we’re cool like that. It’s not one of those relationships where I say good morning or what, it’s just normal. I text her and even her husband (Elikem),” said Stunner.

On whether he and Olinda are still together, Stunner said a lot of people have been speculating about his marriage yet they have no idea what’s going on.

“We woke up in the same bed. How else can you be with somebody if you woke up in the same bed and sheets? People have been saying a lot and it’s unfortunate that there’s a huge public eye that wants to blow things out of proportion and those who really think without the wife he’s going to be nothing,” he said.

In all this, Stunner had advice for married men who have wives who are earning more than them.

“I encourage people to love their wives even if they’re earning more than you. Even if after this interview something happens next week and she says she no longer wants to be with me then that will be that. So I’ll go back home and cook because I don’t think she has mellowed enough to cook for me at this juncture,” he said.


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  • Shuvai

    Stunner should not be banding high earning women together as if they are a curse somehow. There are high earning women who still know that they are wives and have to respect their husbands no-matter what. Every wife must be loved, whether rich or poor.

    • mumuzile

      l once attended a church service where a priest said it is not a marriage where a spouse has multiple lovers and does their dirty things in front of you and also even if the woman has money the man should not sit back he should put more effort to take care of the family as it was said that Adam should eat from his sweat. The disturbing statement from the man is that he tries to justify his actions by saying he is a man then what?

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  • Lux

    This is freaking headline news??this is a b metro headline story!I’m really who cares???

    • MakhosiXamu

      If you are offended by this article ….. read other news and stop being a manager here. I love the article. i don’t have time for B-Metro at least I know 4sure that the rich and famous have loose morals, period. Maybe you are one person whose appetite for any lady that catches eye- you go bananas, shame.

    • sigadula

      whats wrong with the headline wena sakaliyatsha? Its good if you are reading abt Rihana infecting Chris brown with STI. But if its stunner cheating on his wife, its b-metro staff? Mgodoyi

      • Lux

        You and xamu have thuvi for brains….

    • N. Sithole

      I tend to concur. This Stunner guy is a nobody. Surely we can’t be bogged down on these publicity seekers. Sorry if I have offended some people.

      • nhlanganiso

        but thats news people, remember we learn from our mistakes, kanti lina lifuna ukuzwa indaba ezesabekayo kuphela njani

        • N. Sithole

          It’s news yes. Kodwa ukuthi sesingaqed’inyanga yonke sitshelwa ngabantu abangaziphathanga?

          • Doctor Do little

            100% agree.

          • isakhamuzi

            that’s news as we also need to hear what happens in other homes for example l used to think my home is the only one with pure madness

          • Doctor Do little

            It is differences of opinion. I agree with Sithole. You don’t. I have a strong belief that celebrities should be role models. Maybe you believe the opposite. That’s fine.

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  • khokho

    They need to seek prophetic healing and deliverance to save their marriage

  • Shuvai

    Ruvheneko misled on the meaning of “BREADWINNER.” It is clear both husband and wife are breadwinners. Stunner is not a PHD (Permanent Home Defender), he sings and he hustles.

    • Umzila Kawulandelwa

      You are dull

      • Shuvai

        Hauna kudzidza handiti.

  • siba

    umendo kawuthunyelwa gundwane batsho njalo okhokho

  • Counsellor

    Am sorry that our young people have very little guidance on marriage. All I hear in the two is a cry for help. Am offering my counseling skills to these two. You welcome to contact me. All marriages need to be conserved.

  • Madzibaba

    Mboko imboko…..his a gold digger and they are both infected. Let them kill each other

  • Mr Bee

    so is this news?

  • kk

    Jah Prayzah I know, Rockie, ExQ, but who is this Stunner? Is he that important? I don’t care what he does or doesn’t do with his life/wife! But I will definitely be happy if he goes back to school, suppliment his O levels and become a somebody!

  • Trotsky

    stunner is famous for all reasons i.e bedding famous Pokello and now this Blesser who can afford to buy a 40k car in a relationship less than a year man o man give something to stunner hes got wat it takes to bed the rich and famous eat your hearts out all you disgressors the boy has it plus music too he should be in hollywood where he would be appreciated its your talent stunner enjoy while you can still have them Olinda wanted stunner for wat stunner is asinger and Pokello ex why put pokello in the equation just because they text each other stunner my boy you are a stunner

  • Mr Dee

    Those without problems in their relationships cast the 1st stone. if you are single please wait until you are married to comment. Its unfortunate their problems are in the public eye but a lot who are commenting here have worse problems.

    • Mikha Managamela

      precisely what I wanted to say !!!

  • Ton van Der Parker

    “Zimbabweans hate ” he said, that’s rather generalisation of a statement. As a Zimbabwean I d not know this man and have no reason to hate or love him. So he shoul be careful when making statements that he does not paint every citizen of this country wi the same brush.